Tips & preparations

Bring a change of clothes on Saturday

Day­time weath­er will be warm. Night­time = cold. Not "cool." Cold. When the sun goes down, you will want to bun­dle up. Ladies, bring pants and socks and a wrap/jacket/sweater. Gen­tle­men, bring sweaters and/or flasks.

transportation

We want to help sort out shut­tles to and from the wed­ding. We have found a good, afford­able shut­tle solu­tion, so please let us know if you're inter­est­ed in being chauf­feured to and from the wed­ding (by a very respon­si­ble stranger in an Econoline).

Lucas valley road issues

Rumors are cir­cu­lat­ing that Lucas Val­ley Road will tem­porar­i­ly occu­pied by a bike race on Sat­ur­day morn­ing. The Inter­net doesn't know any­thing about it, and it shouldn't affect any sched­ules, but keep it in mind.

When you've got some free time
Redwoods

Marin Coun­ty has two great spots to see red­woods. The fabled Muir Woods is in the south­ern part of Marin. If you haven't seen it yet, you should. It's amaz­ing. If you're pressed for time, Samuel P. Tay­lor State Park is just a few min­utes down the road from Nica­s­io. If you head down to Muir Woods, you should con­sid­er eat­ing lunch in Muir Beach at the Pel­i­can Inn. Set along the spec­tac­u­lar Cal­i­for­nia coast, it serves food in the style of … a British pub. But the food and beer are real­ly good.

Ocean

The mighty Pacif­ic! Cross the Gold­en Gate Bridge, take the exit for High­way 1 north. Dri­ve 40 min­utes up the coast to the town of Point Reyes and beyond. On the way, stop and see Boli­nas, the quin­tes­sen­tial north­ern Cal­i­forn­ian surf vil­lage. Observe the locals, who are noto­ri­ous for their insu­lar­i­ty and dis­like of tourism. For decades, Cal­trans has tried to put a sign on High­way 1 to indi­cate the Boli­nas turn off, but the locals repeat­ed­ly tear it down. Just north of Boli­nas is Point Reyes Nation­al Seashore. Take in the rugged coast­line and the play­ful sea lions. Beyond Point Reyes, have a tasty lunch at the Hog Island Oys­ter Com­pa­ny.

cafes & shopping

From San Rafael, you're a half-hour dri­ve from Mill Val­ley to the south, and Petaluma to the horth. Fans of M*A*S*H might remem­ber Mill Val­ley as the home­town of Dr. BJ Hon­ni­cutt; Petaluma is known for its eggs, and as the place where Amer­i­can Graf­fi­ti was filmed. Both towns offer lit­tle bou­tiques, restau­rants and antique stores. In Mill Val­ley, you can get an excel­lent Indi­an bur­ri­to at Avatar's Pun­jabi Bur­ri­tos; in Petaluma, you'll find (what many con­sid­er) the best bak­ery in the Bay Area, Del­la Fat­to­ria.

wine & cheese

Let me first say that there will be no short­age of booze at the wed­ding. But if the par­ty train must con­tin­ue around the wed­ding events, Marin is the gate­way to the wine-mak­ing region of Sono­ma and Napa coun­ties. Some rec­om­men­da­tions: Viansa (good food); Car­di­nale (amaz­ing, but pricey); Rubi­con (used to be called "Niebaum-Cop­po­la," good wine and an actu­al Tuck­er Tor­pe­do). Also, there are many spark­ly-wine mak­ers near­by: Domaine Carneros, and Glo­ria Fer­rer, for exam­ple. Cheese-wise, it doesn't get much bet­ter than Cow­girl Cream­ery in Point Reyes Station. 

art & architecture

The major­i­ty of the Bay Area's cul­tur­al trea­sures are in San Fran­cis­co and Berke­ley, but Marin has brings a lit­tle some­thing to the table, too. Sausal­i­to, a funky sea­side vil­lage in the 60s, is now a thriv­ing gallery and shop­ping area. The Heath Ceram­ics fac­to­ry is there, in a great old Inter­na­tion­al Style build­ing, and just down the road is a great seafood restau­rant called Fish. There is also Frank Lloyd Wright's Marin Coun­ty Civic Cen­ter in San Rafael; it's the Star-Wars-look­ing thing on the east side of 101. If you explore around there, check out Sol Food, which has great Puer­to Rican food.

we're here to help

Let us know if you have ques­tions, con­cerns, ideas, or well-wish­es … Email: dougand­mara at gmail dot com.

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